refs.c: don't expose the internal struct ref_lock in the header file

Now the struct ref_lock is used completely internally, so let's
remove it from the header file.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Beller <sbeller@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Haggerty <mhagger@alum.mit.edu>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>