refs: move for_each_*ref* functions into common code

Make do_for_each_ref take a submodule as an argument instead of a
ref_cache.  Since all for_each_*ref* functions are defined in terms of
do_for_each_ref, we can then move them into the common code.

Later, we can simply make do_for_each_ref into a backend function.

Signed-off-by: David Turner <dturner@twopensource.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael Haggerty <mhagger@alum.mit.edu>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>