refs.c: make submodule ref store hashmap generic

This removes the "submodule" from submodule_hash_entry and other
function names. The goal is to reuse the same code and data structure
for other ref store types. The first one is worktree ref stores.

Signed-off-by: Nguyễn Thái Ngọc Duy <pclouds@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>