merge-recursive: split out code for determining diff_filepairs

Create a new function, get_diffpairs() to compute the diff_filepairs
between two trees.  While these are currently only used in
get_renames(), I want them to be available to some new functions.  No
actual logic changes yet.

Reviewed-by: Stefan Beller <sbeller@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Elijah Newren <newren@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>